Anonymous asked: Why are Christian males looking for females with sexual experience and disallowing Christian females saving themselves for marriage?
Christian males are in fact males you know :-) No really men are men, and we all fight the same battles. Even Jesus was tempted in all ways, just with out sinning.
It’s the sin nature of men that causes “males looking for females with sexual experience and disallowing Christian females saving themselves for marriage?”
This of course is not all men. So my question to you is, what about the other men. The Christian men that honor you, and want to get to know you. Why not set your attention, then your affections if they prove worthy, on them?
Anonymous asked: If a man and a woman are in a relationship (boyfriend & girlfriend or husband & wife) what are the rules for commenting on how attractive the opposite sex is???
no rules. just honor.
if you honor the other person you will speak in a manner that honors them, and brings them respect and security.
for some people you can say using course language how sexy someone is…and they will not feel disrespected or insecure, for others that way will not work.
it’s all about honoring the other person.
Here’s the deal. The ‘exclusive relationship’ thing before engagement was a scam that men came up with to give women a false sense of security. doing this allows us to get what husbands ‘get’ without offering what husbands offer, or being responsible like a husband protects and covers his wife. <more>
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Anonymous asked: Do you believe there is a catch 22 with the friendship? Some people can't see themselves with someone they have become really good friends with but I believe friendship is a really good start to a solid foundation.
for those people who can see themselves with a good friend… then yes.
for those of us that reply on a better method to choosing a spouse… then I say no, there is no catch 22.
The path down the road to marriage is simple…. be friends, date briefly, get married.
We complicate things so much.
