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Anonymous asked:

My bf, which is like a cousin to my daughter's father, and I started dating. During that period he started to date and eventually married someone else. He claims that although he loves me that because his family was close to my daughter's family, me and him could not be. Now that his marriage isn't working, he is saying he should of married me. A part of me has moved on and another part wants to see if it was love I really felt but I'm not sure if I should allow that door to open. What to do?

yo! you got to get this now. love is not enough. please read this:::
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151294331247239&set=pb.42434612238.-2207520000.1355114873&type=3&theater

the chance of finding love is amazing! it send chills up your spine… i ain’t mad at you… i get it, it feels amazing… we have to learn how to makes choices based on the word of God and NOT our feelings. the heart is the most wicked and deceitful of all things… it is not to be trusted in making a decision, especially not one about whom to date and marry.

its time to grow up in the Lord. this situation is full of social taboo’s, and ripe with emotion… sounds like a train wreck ready to happen.
it is a violation of man law to date your baby daddy’s boy/cousin… it’s violation for a married man to be telling you he chose wrong.

#doublefail #nodice #pleaseendthis

Having spiritual grounds to marry is about agreement in ALL of our sacred beliefs as Christians. There are some areas of marriage where 100% agreement is not necessary, but belief in Jesus as Lord, The Holy Spirit, salvation and the like are not one of them. Your beliefs and the beliefs of the person you want to marry are what they are and without agreement in spiritual things, it is unreasonable to marry and expect that marriage to have joy, or to last a lifetime. <more>
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Having spiritual grounds to marry is about agreement in ALL of our sacred beliefs as Christians. There are some areas of marriage where 100% agreement is not necessary, but belief in Jesus as Lord, The Holy Spirit, salvation and the like are not one of them. Your beliefs and the beliefs of the person you want to marry are what they are and without agreement in spiritual things, it is unreasonable to marry and expect that marriage to have joy, or to last a lifetime. <more>

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Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

At what stage is it appropriate to ask a guy where you stand? After the 1st date, after the 3rd date? Or at the month anniversary?

what is your goal? sex? marriage? fun? honor? what is your goal?

if your goal is to be married, then you should know where you stand, and why you stand there from day one, date one.

if you learned a year later that a man had no intention of marriage from the very beginning, how would you feel?

you deserve the truth even though we think that you can’t handle the truth.

you have to be the one that is responsible for your heart, NOT HIM… do what ever it takes to prevent hurtful surprises. find out why he’s is requesting the pleasure of your company. right now!

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